Community Guidelines
DilMate is for respectful, consent-forward dating and member-led public meetups. A smaller room only works when members treat each other carefully.
Show up as yourself
Use accurate profile information, current photos, and a real account. Do not impersonate another person, misrepresent your age, hide major safety-relevant facts, or use AI/deceptive media to mislead members.
Respect boundaries
No harassment, threats, sexual pressure, hate, stalking, repeated unwanted contact, coercion, or retaliation. A no, pass, block, unmatched connection, or lack of response is enough.
Meet safely
Use public places, clear timing, transparent costs, and realistic accessibility details. Do not pressure members to move quickly to private locations, share sensitive information, or leave the platform before trust is earned.
No scams or financial pressure
Do not ask members for money, gifts, investments, cryptocurrency, emergency payments, gift cards, payment app transfers, or verification codes. Romance-scam patterns are treated as serious safety violations.
Use trust tools honestly
Blocks and reports exist to keep people safe. False reports, report retaliation, evidence tampering, or attempts to evade restrictions may lead to account action.